Simple ( member #18814) posted at 10:05 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 4:18 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 6:26 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:14 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 12:40 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013
Bumping for a newbie.
Take what you need and leave the rest. Great, great advice in here.
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:44 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Drowninginitall ( member #40968) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013
Just what I needed. Thanks for keeping this up!
BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16
Drowninginitall ( member #40968) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013
Just what I needed. Thanks for keeping this up!
BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:04 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:31 AM on Saturday, October 26th, 2013
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 5:01 AM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
catatonic ( member #40758) posted at 6:14 AM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2013
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 8:48 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:45 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:49 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013
Rabecca ( member #41076) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 4:02 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013
Bump to help through a Friday night.
Take care of yourselves my friends.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
