Topic is Sleeping.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:29 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
I am so sorry. Your SI family is here for you.
Loukas ( member #47354) posted at 6:13 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
Just wanted you to know I’m still thinking about you, NTV. You and your family are still in my prayers.
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 6:23 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 7:10 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
((((NTV)))))
I am so very sorry. Sending you strength, light and hugs.
Please reach out if you need support - we're here for you.
Lala
Me-58 FWH-60 Married 40 years 9/2/2023 grown daughters-40&36.14yo GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); 12yo GD & 7yo GD(DD36). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 7:57 PM on Wednesday, February 23rd, 2022
(((NTV)))
So sorry to hear of your loss brother. I am certain you are overwhelmed right now, but know that you are in our thoughts and we are here for you when you need it.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 12:33 AM on Thursday, February 24th, 2022
Oh, man! I just saw this. I am so sorry. Words just can't even do justice to the depth of the loss you are experiencing, nor my compassion for you.
We will be praying for you. 
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 2:49 AM on Thursday, February 24th, 2022
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:15 PM on Thursday, February 24th, 2022
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 6:13 PM on Thursday, February 24th, 2022
I'm still in shock. I've spent the last few days cleaning and sorting her stuff. Partly because if I stop moving, then I'll break down and partly because I'm hoping to find a goodbye letter for me or the kids.
It's hard for me to talk about outloud, I keep crying each time I got to call anyone.
The kids haven't really broken down yet, I think they're in shock still too - but the reality of it hasn't quite hit them yet.
She was dealing with cancer the last 2 years, but her type of cancer had a 95% survival rate. She spoke to the kids and me alot about not making it through, but I had kept up hope the entire time.
I'm struggling.
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:56 PM on Thursday, February 24th, 2022
I can't imagine how painful this is. No other words.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 12:10 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2022
I am so sorry to read this. You and your family are in my prayers.
Thank you for letting us know. We are here if and when you need us.
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:21 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2022
NTV
Please take care of yourself. Keep up with fluids. Eat when you can. Rest. Lean on those around you. It's ok to break down.
Hugs❤
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 2:51 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2022
Please hang in there NTV.
One day at a time.
Sending safe hugs.
(((NTV)))
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
ISurvivedSoFar ( member #56915) posted at 3:01 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2022
(((NTV))) More support coming your way. Thinking of you and hoping it provides some of the strength you need. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
DDay Nov '16
Me: BS, a.k.a. MommaDom, Him: WS
2 DD's: one adult, one teen,1 DS: adult
Surviving means we promise ourselves we will get to the point where we can receive love and give love again.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 7:25 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2022
NTV, I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. Please take care of yourself.
2frayedsouls ( member #48177) posted at 9:24 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2022
NTV I am so sorry to see this. You brought a lot of much needed cheer and respite from the despair in my early days here. Hoping you can draw some comfort from all our collective thoughts and prayers for you and your children.
Me: BW Him: WH one son, one daughter
Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 5:04 PM on Sunday, February 27th, 2022
Very Sorry to read the news - just saw this today.
Been missing your posts - now know why -
There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 9:14 PM on Sunday, February 27th, 2022
I've been praying for you. Please remember to take care of yourself.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
rambler ( member #43747) posted at 12:52 AM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
Sorry for your loss. My thoughts with you and the kids.
million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 2:30 AM on Monday, February 28th, 2022
So very sorry. Hugs to you all.
Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
Topic is Sleeping.
